Yesterday, I had an uncomfortable lunchtime with my friends.
Not because the food was bad ,indeed the food was one of the best.
Not because the environment was unclean, indeed I don't really mind if the environment is dirty or tidy as long as I have a place to sit and eat.
Not because my friends are not friendly, indeed they are fun. I love them, the fact is I hate what they are doing.
I don't mind people gossiping around as long as they don't bring down anyone's reputation.
Gossiping I think its just fine as long as it remains merely for entertainment.
It's the idea of expressing their thoughts publicly with the wrong intention and THAT makes me sick.
That reminds me the world is just full of paparazzi, they just want to dig out the filthy secrets of the celebrities or any VIP and publish them in public in order to get the reaction like "OMG, that really happens?!", or "What the hell, shame on him/her!" from the readers.
Well, that's human being, with that kind of sinful nature..And that's how the mags or news earn their profits ..They knew the ugly nature of ..all of us, we kinda really think we are better when we comment over others shortcomings...Most of us think if our enemies or someone who we dislike or someone who we disapprove their weird characters and they fall one day because of some mistakes they've done, all of a sudden, and we gain our victory from them. Or we should say we get satisfied, huh?
Well, so most of us feel great seeing other fall, and that makes us think we are superior to the fallen ones...
Who knows what drives us to be that ugly?! Jealousy? Well, maybe...Revenge? Well, it can be...
But all in all, I think the root of all is PRIDE...This is why most of us only show our humility when trials or troubles or failures come into part of our life...
Well, I don't disagree the fact many of so called the weird ones or the ones whose past was kinda an annoyance to the people around them..Well, most of us judge a person based on what they did in their past...
Even though what anyone did is so terribly wrong in the aspect of morality...That doesn't give anyone the right to shout anyone's ugly past on the top of the roof....especially through blogs, spaces, fb..or whatever in the network that many people can easily access...It's totally crossing the line... .
Everyone can really be such a crap sometimes in our life, probably most of us didn't even notice that when we are being such a junk...Everyone has their own difficulties that they need to deal with all by themselves, and we should know that and always take into account that we shouldn't add on more troubles to others who has been struggling to do a little bit well in their life...Expressing our thoughts is a good thing to do, but not in the way that exposing someone's failure to the public (politics excluded from this topic), that's the wrong way of handling our thoughts.....
Lastly.....TAME OUR TONGUE!!!!!!!
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