Well, to be really really frank and honest......I gave the lowest expectation of fun I could have from this trip before I went ....
At first, speaking of the separation into few gangs in the class...(well it was so obvious)
I think the gangs will remain in the respective gangs and have fun all on their own in the trip...A few of them in class don't want to join the trip for the same reason and thinking it would be really weird as they can't squeeze in to any of those impenetrable bubbles and have real fun in the trip...
Luckily, the fact is ....It was Fun and wasn't that bad after all....
The class wasn't that inconsiderate...and indeed very thoughtful...
Thanks to the games organizers, xuan yang, jing yee, dian heng...the best dance choreographer , Ah Lian....
The night time activities organizer, Adeline...The cook, Chi Chi Moi.....Things wouldn't turn out that great without them....
Woo Hoo!!!! I learn Mahjung and San Guo Sa during the first night ...thanks so much to Kenneth bro...
Especially Mahjung, it's totally fun and it will be our useful pastime when we are in our sixties ....
For the last night in the trip, Adeline came out with the plan of "Happy Hour" ...
Happy Hour is what the boys will click an "unlike" if it appears in Facebook...
It's the time when everyone break some secrets in public and gave some words to encourage one another maybe say some last words to make one another cry....well , those aren't the Boys' stuff...kinda Girlie...
But, it was indeed meaningful ...(of course no ugly secrets were exposed).....
In the act of giving the last words to all buddies, I find it hard to dig some valuable words out from my mind to give them to some of my friends...but some were easy...
The most interesting stuff is...I came to one of my best friends and we totally have no idea what to talk and we began to hug and don't know why on earth we burst into tears...I felt girlie to show anyone I am crying....that's totally not me because "Boys don't cry in front of buddies"....but What the hell, who cares during then....
Today, I flipped through a blog , its Yan Jun's blog...and I found this verse really relevant to my circumstance...."A friend is someone you can be alone with and have nothing to do and not be able to think of anything to say and be comfortable in the silence. -Sheryl Condie"...well...SO TRUE!!!!!
This is how I will remember my friends:
Wei Chuan and Kar Kin- Everlasting Good Guys On Earth...Very Thoughtful
Ah Lian- My favourite dancer...Very serious in his Task
Loke Loke- furry!! too furry!!!! and The Best Dog Ever!!!
Jing Yee- Toshiba....well, a good partner to play with.....
Wei Min- A kind person but can insult and boast really well and you can't even get hurt at any times....
Jun Sheng - Mr. Euler who still needs to work on his self-esteem...
Dian Heng and Shi Yun -we think they are prefectly match together as they really has the HEART OF A SERVANT!!!!...they are the role models of servant hood....I admire them so badly...
Chi Chi Moi- She has the potential to be a good mother and good cook who really cares our three meals throughout the trip....and someone who can cook a spaghetti sauce by mixing two flavors and still turn out to be two flavors....>.<
Maggie- A girl who always concern of the welfare of others..
Ian and Xuan Yang- Great sport guy...
Teo- Boy!!! He never grows!!!
Shi Ann - Potential Sleeping Beauty
Ah Kit- Future Body Builder but with a six-year-old taste
SY- the kind person who helps you and passionate for the leftover after your meal or even before you touch your meal
SK- very active, too active in outdoors
Yong yu and hui yi- the cool blogger and the cool dancer
Andy and Kenneth - they are the last on my list that I will want to forget them...
Other than the above- still trying to think how to describe them..will come out with some good ideas later..
Friday, November 26, 2010
Sunday, November 21, 2010
Process takes time
It's two days after graduation.
Tomorrow will be the graduation trip to PD and Melaka.
Looking forward to spending my last moments with my fellow friends.
After the trip, it will come to the process of getting used to the days when I will spend lesser time in school and with my friends.
The process is a tough one which I hope I can go through it well.
It's freaky cause when we get used to meeting our friends daily and now we can't...until the next time we organize a gathering dinner or whatsoever...It's freaky cause when we get used to the routine set by the school and now we have to plan them by ourselves...not knowing if our plans are allowing us to fully utilise our time in the right way...or worse still dreaming the whole day or watching movie series the whole day...
It is a changing process that examine our self-discipline and willpower to do our preparation for our future ...
It is a changing process that test our preseverance living with or without teachers and friends to watch out for us..
Process takes time...so we assume this will be the long one...
All we do is to stick to our plans until we get used to them...
Human however is way too flexible than we can imagine...
Tomorrow will be the graduation trip to PD and Melaka.
Looking forward to spending my last moments with my fellow friends.
After the trip, it will come to the process of getting used to the days when I will spend lesser time in school and with my friends.
The process is a tough one which I hope I can go through it well.
It's freaky cause when we get used to meeting our friends daily and now we can't...until the next time we organize a gathering dinner or whatsoever...It's freaky cause when we get used to the routine set by the school and now we have to plan them by ourselves...not knowing if our plans are allowing us to fully utilise our time in the right way...or worse still dreaming the whole day or watching movie series the whole day...
It is a changing process that examine our self-discipline and willpower to do our preparation for our future ...
It is a changing process that test our preseverance living with or without teachers and friends to watch out for us..
Process takes time...so we assume this will be the long one...
All we do is to stick to our plans until we get used to them...
Human however is way too flexible than we can imagine...
Wednesday, November 17, 2010
Awful Lunchtime
Yesterday, I had an uncomfortable lunchtime with my friends.
Not because the food was bad ,indeed the food was one of the best.
Not because the environment was unclean, indeed I don't really mind if the environment is dirty or tidy as long as I have a place to sit and eat.
Not because my friends are not friendly, indeed they are fun. I love them, the fact is I hate what they are doing.
I don't mind people gossiping around as long as they don't bring down anyone's reputation.
Gossiping I think its just fine as long as it remains merely for entertainment.
It's the idea of expressing their thoughts publicly with the wrong intention and THAT makes me sick.
That reminds me the world is just full of paparazzi, they just want to dig out the filthy secrets of the celebrities or any VIP and publish them in public in order to get the reaction like "OMG, that really happens?!", or "What the hell, shame on him/her!" from the readers.
Well, that's human being, with that kind of sinful nature..And that's how the mags or news earn their profits ..They knew the ugly nature of ..all of us, we kinda really think we are better when we comment over others shortcomings...Most of us think if our enemies or someone who we dislike or someone who we disapprove their weird characters and they fall one day because of some mistakes they've done, all of a sudden, and we gain our victory from them. Or we should say we get satisfied, huh?
Well, so most of us feel great seeing other fall, and that makes us think we are superior to the fallen ones...
Who knows what drives us to be that ugly?! Jealousy? Well, maybe...Revenge? Well, it can be...
But all in all, I think the root of all is PRIDE...This is why most of us only show our humility when trials or troubles or failures come into part of our life...
Well, I don't disagree the fact many of so called the weird ones or the ones whose past was kinda an annoyance to the people around them..Well, most of us judge a person based on what they did in their past...
Even though what anyone did is so terribly wrong in the aspect of morality...That doesn't give anyone the right to shout anyone's ugly past on the top of the roof....especially through blogs, spaces, fb..or whatever in the network that many people can easily access...It's totally crossing the line... .
Everyone can really be such a crap sometimes in our life, probably most of us didn't even notice that when we are being such a junk...Everyone has their own difficulties that they need to deal with all by themselves, and we should know that and always take into account that we shouldn't add on more troubles to others who has been struggling to do a little bit well in their life...Expressing our thoughts is a good thing to do, but not in the way that exposing someone's failure to the public (politics excluded from this topic), that's the wrong way of handling our thoughts.....
Lastly.....TAME OUR TONGUE!!!!!!!
Not because the food was bad ,indeed the food was one of the best.
Not because the environment was unclean, indeed I don't really mind if the environment is dirty or tidy as long as I have a place to sit and eat.
Not because my friends are not friendly, indeed they are fun. I love them, the fact is I hate what they are doing.
I don't mind people gossiping around as long as they don't bring down anyone's reputation.
Gossiping I think its just fine as long as it remains merely for entertainment.
It's the idea of expressing their thoughts publicly with the wrong intention and THAT makes me sick.
That reminds me the world is just full of paparazzi, they just want to dig out the filthy secrets of the celebrities or any VIP and publish them in public in order to get the reaction like "OMG, that really happens?!", or "What the hell, shame on him/her!" from the readers.
Well, that's human being, with that kind of sinful nature..And that's how the mags or news earn their profits ..They knew the ugly nature of ..all of us, we kinda really think we are better when we comment over others shortcomings...Most of us think if our enemies or someone who we dislike or someone who we disapprove their weird characters and they fall one day because of some mistakes they've done, all of a sudden, and we gain our victory from them. Or we should say we get satisfied, huh?
Well, so most of us feel great seeing other fall, and that makes us think we are superior to the fallen ones...
Who knows what drives us to be that ugly?! Jealousy? Well, maybe...Revenge? Well, it can be...
But all in all, I think the root of all is PRIDE...This is why most of us only show our humility when trials or troubles or failures come into part of our life...
Well, I don't disagree the fact many of so called the weird ones or the ones whose past was kinda an annoyance to the people around them..Well, most of us judge a person based on what they did in their past...
Even though what anyone did is so terribly wrong in the aspect of morality...That doesn't give anyone the right to shout anyone's ugly past on the top of the roof....especially through blogs, spaces, fb..or whatever in the network that many people can easily access...It's totally crossing the line... .
Everyone can really be such a crap sometimes in our life, probably most of us didn't even notice that when we are being such a junk...Everyone has their own difficulties that they need to deal with all by themselves, and we should know that and always take into account that we shouldn't add on more troubles to others who has been struggling to do a little bit well in their life...Expressing our thoughts is a good thing to do, but not in the way that exposing someone's failure to the public (politics excluded from this topic), that's the wrong way of handling our thoughts.....
Lastly.....TAME OUR TONGUE!!!!!!!
Tuesday, November 16, 2010
Compliments
Compliments are both difficult and easy to give to one another.
It totally depends on a person's age, character and emotion.
Praising our peers are just as easy as breathing.
However, that kind of compliment is just merely to win their favor and make them feel good regardless of the truth. It turns out most of the compliments are just another few lies we make daily in order to please someone and to fulfill your intentions. Sounds gross but that's the fact!
On the other hand, if anyone that are closed to us, their compliments are the real stuff! (At least mine does and I do too). Their pretty words are just to build us up not to bring us down.
Things get a bit different when we want our parents to give us compliment. Of course i exclude the westerners from this category since the way westerners educate their children is so much different from the East...Giving their child compliment is as hard as getting a pearl from a closed shell. They think by praising their child, it will hinder their advance in learning, or perhaps they are just being unable to let go their ego and believe their children are better than them or perhaps they just don't get used to praising their children and just being proud of their child silently...That's the culture..Very conservative..
I love compliments and I also hate them too..They can be useful and they can be just another curtain trying not to revealing the ugly truth...Well all and all...Truth is still the best even if it hurts...
It totally depends on a person's age, character and emotion.
Praising our peers are just as easy as breathing.
However, that kind of compliment is just merely to win their favor and make them feel good regardless of the truth. It turns out most of the compliments are just another few lies we make daily in order to please someone and to fulfill your intentions. Sounds gross but that's the fact!
On the other hand, if anyone that are closed to us, their compliments are the real stuff! (At least mine does and I do too). Their pretty words are just to build us up not to bring us down.
Things get a bit different when we want our parents to give us compliment. Of course i exclude the westerners from this category since the way westerners educate their children is so much different from the East...Giving their child compliment is as hard as getting a pearl from a closed shell. They think by praising their child, it will hinder their advance in learning, or perhaps they are just being unable to let go their ego and believe their children are better than them or perhaps they just don't get used to praising their children and just being proud of their child silently...That's the culture..Very conservative..
I love compliments and I also hate them too..They can be useful and they can be just another curtain trying not to revealing the ugly truth...Well all and all...Truth is still the best even if it hurts...
Sunday, November 14, 2010
Another Boring Day
Really getting lazier and lazier if I continue to live this way...Waking up around 11am...
Flipping through the newspaper..until 12pm...struggling to plan what I should do for the rest of my day...
Reading boring novel n facebooking n that's it....Really can't wait to join a cancer aid institution with my friend..sounds really fun when he recommend that plan to me...Its about going through courses regarding how we should take care of the households with patient who contracted cancer...and some voluntary jobs...sounds a bit tough but it is a good plan to occupy myself rather than getting rot at home....Human being really needs to MOVE....before they become retarded or brain rusted....:)
Flipping through the newspaper..until 12pm...struggling to plan what I should do for the rest of my day...
Reading boring novel n facebooking n that's it....Really can't wait to join a cancer aid institution with my friend..sounds really fun when he recommend that plan to me...Its about going through courses regarding how we should take care of the households with patient who contracted cancer...and some voluntary jobs...sounds a bit tough but it is a good plan to occupy myself rather than getting rot at home....Human being really needs to MOVE....before they become retarded or brain rusted....:)
Nice start
Just about to end my 18....Never thought of starting a blog all these years but I think I should now because I really have plenty of free time in this Gap Year ....Most people spend their Gap Year so recklessly and I hope I will not be one of them....My wise friend told me....Gap Year supposed to be the period when we spend our time alone...reviewing what we have done during high school ...discovering who we really are and finding what we want to be in future...so..I think starting a blog is quite a fresh start ...where I can put down my thoughts and look back in future to see my progress...I hope this will sustain for a long time...cause I am not sure how long can I do this...All the best..to MYSELF
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